Rather Than Choosing A Goal, Choose the Process
~ Inspirational Goaling
Maybe you’re living the life society & your upbringing expected of you with some of the following:
- Finished school
- Got some post grad further education
- Have children
- Work to help support the family
- Put the health and well being of family as your first priority
- Going through the ups and downs, challenges, tears and laughter of life and coming out fairly well
- Or, going through a really rough and tough ride but surviving
Here you are, staring your second half of life in the face, and you may be:
- Feeling bored and then guilty for feeling bored
- Looking at a giant question mark for a future
- Panicky over the ever faster passing of time
- Having an identity crisis
- Single with a great career and wondering what you may have missed out on
- Feeling rudderless, having no direction
- In an empty nest
Whatever your past has held, you are now feeling frustrated, edgy, confused and so tired of trying to figure all this out. You’re asking:
- “What is my true gift, the purpose I came here to share with others and really touches my soul?”
- “I’m doing all the right things, why am I feeling so discontent? I have so much to be grateful for and I feel guilty that I feel this way.”
- “I’m feeling lost and I don’t have a direction”
- “Who the heck am I, who’s left over after I’ve played all my roles, I seem to be lost and I can’t find me?
- “Why am I even on this planet?”
- “I have so many questions and no answers and don’t know who to talk to, my friends and family don’t take me seriously or just don’t get it”
- I go between feeling depressed, anxious, frustrated, resentful, confused and I hate feeling this way”
- “What do I do with the rest of my life?”
You want good health, you want a loving relationship, you want financial stability. Maybe your happiness lies in volunteer enterprises, starting an entrepreneurial business, changing careers, getting that promotion. But which one, and how? You know you want to make a contribution of some kind and even leave a legacy footprint, small or big, on this earth.
First, let me say this is a wonderful thing that is happening to you! You instinctively feel that there is a deeper reason for living, especially now in your ‘second half’. What’s going on? You are Soul Searching!
Your happiness is not about making the money, finding your soul mate, getting that job, succeeding in business or losing the weight, you’ve been down a version of that road and it hasn’t worked or you wouldn’t be feeling this way.
I’m so happy to be able to tell you that you can get off that path of society’s expectations, what others say you ought to be or do such as be happy to look after your home and kids whether they’re still at home or grown up, go to the gym, take a cruise once a year, prepare to retire in grace. Nothing wrong with any of this if it brings you the contented happiness you are searching for, but if not…..
Would you like to have a glimpse into what can be waiting for you?
You don’t have to be stressed by your questions listed above. You don’t have to struggle to reach a mountain top, way off in the future, where someone or something may make you happy. That’s ‘goal setting and achievement’ and as an evolving species we have outgrown that. There is a process wherein you can arrive at all your answers. And it’s not having to figure out who you are, it’s discovering who you become in this process.
The process is Inspirational Goaling, aka in-spirit direction, and it is accomplished with three steps;
1. Clearing The Fog: We will get extreme clarity about where you are right now. Yours is only one perspective and we need to widen and deepen your sight so you can begin to see the Who, What and How of your future.
2. Claiming Who You Are: You’ll get knowledge of yourself that you have been unable to access up to now. You’ll discover your hidden, unique purpose and with it comes a depth of personal ownership that is a strength you never knew you had. And you will no longer doubt yourself or your abilities to overcome any dare.
You are much stronger and more resourceful than you may think. You have inner resources to draw on that you’ve been out of touch with
3.Designing Your Future: We will design a strategy, a plan for you to follow and guide you to the end results you want. You will recognize that what you want is not something that you must struggle and strive to reach, but is available to you one present moment at a time. I’ll show you how.
You can actually be happy while on your path to Ultimate Happiness. This is not a struggle, this is a journey of revelations (ah-ha’s) that gently guide you to the exact place you choose to have whatever experience you wish. After all, you are a Spirit having human experiences, therefore Spirit should be your guide. You will find out how to ‘listen’ to that guidance. It’s a process of learning to be in happiness every moment of now.
If you’ve had that instinctive feeling that there is a deep reason for this life journey, you are right and Inspirational Goaling can reveal your reason.
Because I am one, I love to work with ‘seasoned’ women (and Heart Conscious men secure in their feminine energy)
“A seasoned woman is spicy, she has been marinated in life experience. She is at the peak of her influence and power. She is committed to living fully and passionately in the second half of life, despite failures and false starts.” ~ Gail Sheehy
THIS IS WHAT I DO
I work with women to help them figure out who they are, what they want and how to go get it!
Lack of awareness of purpose, the gift you came to this planet to share, is at the very root of your questioning, confusion and lack of direction. Most women aren’t aware of this and therefore don’t know to look for someone to help them discover it. They can’t name it yet. Instead, the call for help comes in many disguises.
I join hands with women living life’s second half who are searching for clear, meaningful answers, and walk with you toward a new way in this new age to find and connect with what inspires you, makes you happy and connects with your soul. Usually, you want to know the answer to, “Who am I, without identifying with the the roles I have played?” (daughter, wife, mother, employee etc.) The answers are all to be found in your Life Purpose.
I guide you to your answers and your result is an inner peace that envelops your entire being; body, mind and soul
Then, you want to know, “Why am I here, what is the reason I am on this planet?”
Once your ‘purpose’ is discovered you begin to behave and think from that source and then all other aspects of your life begin to fall into place with new belief systems, new desires and a command of your life you may have never experienced. I help you discover the extraordinary gift that you came here to share with the world and your sense of meaningful purpose becomes profoundly fulfilling
Next, you’ll ask, “And what do I do with it?”
Together you and I cultivate an environment of deep self-knowledge, a clear understanding and awareness of the Universal Energies surrounding you just waiting to materialize, and a support system like none other as your answer develops and emerges. And there IS an answer that when you hear it will have you announcing ‘Yes! That’s it’
And when you question or doubt yourself?
I gently show you that this is your ‘Ego’ trying to gain control and not your ‘Spirit’ that wants you to fly free and alive with the joy and passion of living life with significance, love and contribution your way!
WHY I DO IT
Humanity is on the front wave of a shift in consciousness for our world; the consciousness that knows our planet is in desperate need of a new kind of guidance and energy. I know you can feel it.
It would seem the feminine energy is what is being called for, as in the famous quote from the Dalai Lama, “The world will be saved by the Western Woman.”
Therefore, my purpose is to lead women to discover their true value at this pivotal point in history.
You can find out more about the Inspirational Goaling Coaching Services
And if this sounds like something you would like to explore putting into your life, you may qualify for a no-cost conversation with me. If you want
- To have remarkable clarity
- Be able to take your first step with confidence
- To more easily exchange procrastination for action